In Midwifery Matters issue 155 (Winter 2017), Sam Pantlin and Alex Williams discuss the language of birth. They suggest using the phrase ‘direct birth’ rather than ‘normal birth’ when discussing vaginal birth. They argue that normal can apply to so many different situations, and whilst it is commonly utilised to mean ‘natural and physiological’ it can lead to disappointment when a ‘normal birth’ is not achieved.
I personally believe language has such a powerful influence on women. Even I, someone who is conscious of the words I use, can find myself slipping into phrases such as low and high risk. I am open to changing my language and my style of care to ensure I am helping women break away from modern cultural expectations, and helping them get in touch with their womanly self at such a momentous time in their life.
What are your thoughts on the phrase ‘normal birth’?
Do you have any suggestions for alternative language associated with birth?
Are there any phrases that make you shudder?